Flirt Factor: Touch

You Say It Best When You Say Nothing At All

Shout out to Allison Krauss for our Flirt Factor theme song.

“The smile on your face lets me know that you need me There’s a truth in your eyes sayin’ you’ll never leave me The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me if ever I fall You say it best when you say nothing at all”

https://youtu.be/n3vQ5hfh0Vk

Perhaps I need to play this song more often to remind me of the simple things that “say it best when you say nothing at all.”


Valentine’s Day is fast approaching; so, we’re talking about the subtle, every day ways we convey the depth of our feelings and commitments with simple touch. Remember the first time he touched your hand, even if it was accidentally (wink, wink)? Or that time when he sat down next to you so close that your legs were touching. That twitterpated feeling may have up and flown the coop if you been married a few years and have a couple of kids. That’s probably because we’re so busy doing everything else for everyone else that there is too much obligatory touching in your world that a moment of NOT being touched is liberating! Been there! Done that! But now, my kids are young adults and they don’t require my constant coddling. So, I’m felling… well… a little “out-of-touch.”

Killing me softly…. With his hands

I met a couple at an event I was doing where the husband was a welder and his hands were so rough and dry that he very literally could have sliced his wife clean open with them. He said that the skin on his hands

060112-M-1226J-003 A U.S. Marine Corps engineer uses a cutting torch to cut a steel pipe as he fabricates support structures in Camp Fallujah, Iraq, on Jan. 12, 2006. The engineer is attached to the II Marine Expeditionary Force, which is deployed to Iraq from Camp Lejeune, N.C. DoD photo by Cpl. Bryson K. Jones, U.S. Marine Corps. (Released)


would literally split wide open as a result of his work and his solution was to glue the cut skin together with super glue. He showed me several places on his hands where he had glued and the dried glue was sharp enough to be classified as lethal. I told him straight up that he would NEVER get to touch me with those hands if he were my husband; and this is when his wife chimed in to agree and plead for help.


My recommendation for this couple was The Healer by Perfectly Posh. It is a solid shea butter stick which equals deep, concentrated moisture for desperate skin. It can be used anywhere moisture is needed: lips, eyes, elbows, knees, heels… but has saved my hands from winter cracking. Today, on poshified.com, I have lots of products that can help me and others bring the softness back into your touch.


The Big Fat Yummy Hand Crème line offers apricot kernel oil moisture in a fragrance option for every taste.


Our SkinDelicious pure and natural body butters are rich and creamy and made from the best food sources nature has to offer. Fresh creamy milk, coconut oil, brazil nuts, marshmallow roots, mangos: these come together to add softness to skin when used daily.

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